I decided to go out last night because one of my very good friends asked me to go to TNTs grand reopening. Rolled into that was a canned food drive & raffle for Tulsa CARES. So, all in all, a good reason to go out and try to have a good time.
Actually it was nice seeing lots and lots of very attractive lesbians in one space! I made the acquaintance of one of them awhile back at another little bar in town and she just happened to be there last night. Drunker than a skunk, she was! She actually, in her drunken state, reached out and touched someone...that someone being me, of course. She had a fascination with my breastesses! LOL!
Once I removed her hands from "the girls", I thought to myself "Jeeze, I might be short one in a couple of weeks. Maybe I should just let her have at it!" But then my sense of decorum kicked in. Heh... :~)
I did have a good time last night. I had fun just people watching and generally enjoying my life.
Cancer, you WILL be my bitch!!!!
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Friday, November 27, 2009
Nervous? Check. Scared? Double-Check.
People keep asking that. "Are you nervous? Are you scared?" Well, hell yeah I'm nervous and scared! But, not about dying. That is the furthest thing from my mind right now. I'm nervous and scared about the PAIN! I mean, I know I'll be having surgery. THAT'S what I'm nervous and scared about. You see, I am a whimp with a low pain threshold.
Radiation and chemo. I can't stop thinking about those two things and what a pain in the ass they're going to be if I need to do either one. I'll either run around feeling like I've got a sunburn on my chest or I'll go bald. Or maybe both. Of course I've been thinking that if I have chemo and I do go bald, I won't have to worry about having a bad hair day for awhile! AAAAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
Hey man. I've gotta laugh. If I don't I'll just mope around feeling sorry for myself. And that's not how I roll, baby!
Radiation and chemo. I can't stop thinking about those two things and what a pain in the ass they're going to be if I need to do either one. I'll either run around feeling like I've got a sunburn on my chest or I'll go bald. Or maybe both. Of course I've been thinking that if I have chemo and I do go bald, I won't have to worry about having a bad hair day for awhile! AAAAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
Hey man. I've gotta laugh. If I don't I'll just mope around feeling sorry for myself. And that's not how I roll, baby!
I'm A Walking Ball Of Cancerous Funk
The Breast Center has a rule. No one gets their results unless they have someone with them. I like that rule. It makes sense. My friend Debi was with me when Dr. Macedo came in the room with the films. I'm glad she was there. Because I sure as hell didn't expect to hear that I had cancer. Again. The area with the calcifications looked like a ductal carcinoma in situ. Not so bad. The lymph node "appears to be metastatic". Bad. Bad, especially since nothing on the xrays or ultrasound shows where it came from. The lab still needed to do more testing to see if the cancers are receptor positive. They appear to be 2 different types of cancer and are not related to the cervical cancer I had back in September. What the fuck? I mean really. What the FUCK?!
So, in all honesty, my external freak-out lasted about 2 minutes. Once it was over, I discovered that I had a ball of anxiety mixed with nausea in the pit of my stomach. It is still there even as I type. I don't have time for this shit. I really, REALLY don't have time. I don't have time for surgery. I don't have time for radiation. I don't have time for any of this crap.
I'm not even thinking about whether or not I'm gonna die from this. I'm thinking about the fact that I got laid off Sep 18th, had a hysterectomy on Sep 29th, was released to go back to work on Nov 9th, haven't yet found employment, and now THIS! FUCK! FuckfuckfuckfuckFUCK!!
So, in all honesty, my external freak-out lasted about 2 minutes. Once it was over, I discovered that I had a ball of anxiety mixed with nausea in the pit of my stomach. It is still there even as I type. I don't have time for this shit. I really, REALLY don't have time. I don't have time for surgery. I don't have time for radiation. I don't have time for any of this crap.
I'm not even thinking about whether or not I'm gonna die from this. I'm thinking about the fact that I got laid off Sep 18th, had a hysterectomy on Sep 29th, was released to go back to work on Nov 9th, haven't yet found employment, and now THIS! FUCK! FuckfuckfuckfuckFUCK!!
Biopsy Day!!!
When I showed up on the 24th with my good friend Anna (she drove me, God bless her!) I was informed that I was going to have 2 procedures. Of course they didn't tell me that the first procedure was going to be in the "BIOPSY MACHINE FROM HELL!!!"
Imagine yourself as a car. A car on a rack. A car on a rack jacked up with people underneath you doing stuff to you. Stuff that you can't see. That's the machine. It's a big table with a hole in the middle of it, and through this hole dangles your breast. I have to ask, though, WHO THE HELL PUT THE HOLE IN THE MIDDLE OF THE TABLE???!!!! This machine had to have been designed by a man who somehow had the idea that a woman's breasts were in the dead center of her body. You see, had I been any taller, my feet would have seriously hung off the end.
I'm sure the design was so they could fit all of the equipment, etc under the "rack", but Jesus Christ on roller skates, man! Use a little common sense!!
Anyway, I got myself situated flat on my back with my head turned to the right, my left arm straight down by my side and my right hand up near my head. My left breast was hanging through that frikkin' hole and all I could feel were hands...yanking and pulling and stretching the damned thing so it could be SQUISHED IN THE CLAMP OF EVIL!! Actually, they need to do that...hold the breast in one spot. Once they get your "womanly flesh" situated so everything is showing up on the computer like it should...? Then...then you are told not to move.
Dear God, I never wanted to move so much in my life. It was motherfucking uncomfortable! It wouldn't have been so bad had my neck not been messed up from a car crash a couple of months earlier. Alas, it was messed up and I was about ready to scream by the time it was over. The actual biopsy itself was...like...2 minutes! It was getting situated perfectly that took forever.
Once pressure had been put on my breast for...like...5 years...the bleeding stopped and I was steri-stripped up. I was then led to the ultrasound room for the biopsy on the lymph node. Now, this was pretty neat because I was lying in such a way that I could see everything on the ultrasound machine. I wasn't in any pain (thank you Dr. Macedo!) so it was really interesting to watch. This procedure didn't take nearly as long as the other, because the lymph node stuck out like a sore thumb. Again, pressure on my breast for several minutes and the steri-strips across the small nick in the skin.
I was told to come back the next day, (Wed the 25th) to get my results. 2pm, here I come!
Imagine yourself as a car. A car on a rack. A car on a rack jacked up with people underneath you doing stuff to you. Stuff that you can't see. That's the machine. It's a big table with a hole in the middle of it, and through this hole dangles your breast. I have to ask, though, WHO THE HELL PUT THE HOLE IN THE MIDDLE OF THE TABLE???!!!! This machine had to have been designed by a man who somehow had the idea that a woman's breasts were in the dead center of her body. You see, had I been any taller, my feet would have seriously hung off the end.
I'm sure the design was so they could fit all of the equipment, etc under the "rack", but Jesus Christ on roller skates, man! Use a little common sense!!
Anyway, I got myself situated flat on my back with my head turned to the right, my left arm straight down by my side and my right hand up near my head. My left breast was hanging through that frikkin' hole and all I could feel were hands...yanking and pulling and stretching the damned thing so it could be SQUISHED IN THE CLAMP OF EVIL!! Actually, they need to do that...hold the breast in one spot. Once they get your "womanly flesh" situated so everything is showing up on the computer like it should...? Then...then you are told not to move.
Dear God, I never wanted to move so much in my life. It was motherfucking uncomfortable! It wouldn't have been so bad had my neck not been messed up from a car crash a couple of months earlier. Alas, it was messed up and I was about ready to scream by the time it was over. The actual biopsy itself was...like...2 minutes! It was getting situated perfectly that took forever.
Once pressure had been put on my breast for...like...5 years...the bleeding stopped and I was steri-stripped up. I was then led to the ultrasound room for the biopsy on the lymph node. Now, this was pretty neat because I was lying in such a way that I could see everything on the ultrasound machine. I wasn't in any pain (thank you Dr. Macedo!) so it was really interesting to watch. This procedure didn't take nearly as long as the other, because the lymph node stuck out like a sore thumb. Again, pressure on my breast for several minutes and the steri-strips across the small nick in the skin.
I was told to come back the next day, (Wed the 25th) to get my results. 2pm, here I come!
A Lovely Time Was Had By All At St. John's Breast Center!
You know, I hate breast squishage. It's uncomfortable and just plain annoying as hell. And I am truly amazed every single time they are able to take my C-cup and smash it flatter'n a fritter. But, I digress...
When I arrived for my appointment on the 12th of Nov, I didn't have to wait at all. I was in the room getting squished within 5 minutes of my arrival. The tech was great and I got to see the images. Of course I had no clue what I was looking at, not being a radiologist and all...But it was pretty cool! Once all the film was taken, the radiologist reviewed it and lo and behold, not only was the lump I felt visible, but she also saw a small cluster of microcalcifications. See, that's why she gets paid the big bucks and not me, because I could BARELY see the damn things! How she saw them is mind-boggling.
Because they needed to get a closer look, I was squished even more but just in those 2 specific spots. Not fun. Not pleasant. The area under my armpit, the upper left side of my chest, and down my entire left arm was just aching by the time we were done. I figure that big lymph node had it's own party going on right then, which is why everything ached so much. Speaking of the lymph node, they whipped me right into the ultrasound room to get some pictures of it.
After all that was done, the radiologist came in and said that we needed to biopsy both of those areas. She also noted that I had a mammogram there back in 2004 and it was recommended then that I come back in 6 months for a recheck of that pesky lymph node. She eyeballed me and said, "And why didn't you come back?!"
Well, what could I say, really. I just admitted it....I said, "Umm...because I'm a bad patient?" Yeah. Yeah, I am. I'm a horrible patient, actually, and I don't do the things I'm supposed to do sometimes. Like get mammograms and paps regularly...
So, once all the goop was cleaned off and I was dressed, I left there with an appointment card. November 24th was "biopsy day". Oh joy...
When I arrived for my appointment on the 12th of Nov, I didn't have to wait at all. I was in the room getting squished within 5 minutes of my arrival. The tech was great and I got to see the images. Of course I had no clue what I was looking at, not being a radiologist and all...But it was pretty cool! Once all the film was taken, the radiologist reviewed it and lo and behold, not only was the lump I felt visible, but she also saw a small cluster of microcalcifications. See, that's why she gets paid the big bucks and not me, because I could BARELY see the damn things! How she saw them is mind-boggling.
Because they needed to get a closer look, I was squished even more but just in those 2 specific spots. Not fun. Not pleasant. The area under my armpit, the upper left side of my chest, and down my entire left arm was just aching by the time we were done. I figure that big lymph node had it's own party going on right then, which is why everything ached so much. Speaking of the lymph node, they whipped me right into the ultrasound room to get some pictures of it.
After all that was done, the radiologist came in and said that we needed to biopsy both of those areas. She also noted that I had a mammogram there back in 2004 and it was recommended then that I come back in 6 months for a recheck of that pesky lymph node. She eyeballed me and said, "And why didn't you come back?!"
Well, what could I say, really. I just admitted it....I said, "Umm...because I'm a bad patient?" Yeah. Yeah, I am. I'm a horrible patient, actually, and I don't do the things I'm supposed to do sometimes. Like get mammograms and paps regularly...
So, once all the goop was cleaned off and I was dressed, I left there with an appointment card. November 24th was "biopsy day". Oh joy...
So...I Found This Lump In My Breast....
Ok, so a couple of weeks before my hysterectomy I was standing in the shower "Mary Catherine Gallagher" style. You know...arms crossed with the hands under the armpits? I know it sounds strange, but when the water is hot and my neck is sore, I just like to stand there and try to get my muscles to loosen up under the spray.
Anyway, there I was, minding my own damn business, when I realized that there was a lump in my left breast very close to the armpit. I honestly didn't think anything about it. I just didn't think it was a big deal. I sort of made a mental note to worry about it after my surgery, so I put it on the back burner. I would deal with the cervical cancer first and then deal with the lump. I thought that was a pretty damn good plan.
So...after my surgery was done and the "tether of doom" that was my supra-pubic catheter was removed and I was feeling human again, I rechecked it. It was still there, and surprisingly felt a little bigger. So I thought to myself, "Self, you need to make an appointment with Doctor M to get this checked out."
After waiting a few weeks, I finally got off my lazy ass and made the appointment. And off I went to see my doctor. Again, I suffered a verbal tongue lashing because of my non-diligence in getting regular mammograms. I believe the words Whitney (the PA) used were, "You dingdong! You have a family history!" Well, yes. This is true. My mother had breast cancer twice and my grandmother had it once. You'd think I'd be a little more on top of these things, but NOOOooooo...!
Anyway, she did the exam and agreed that yes, indeed, I had a lump. She put in the referral as "urgent" because of my family history and it was scheduled for November 12th. Yipee. Boob squishage was in my immediate future.
Anyway, there I was, minding my own damn business, when I realized that there was a lump in my left breast very close to the armpit. I honestly didn't think anything about it. I just didn't think it was a big deal. I sort of made a mental note to worry about it after my surgery, so I put it on the back burner. I would deal with the cervical cancer first and then deal with the lump. I thought that was a pretty damn good plan.
So...after my surgery was done and the "tether of doom" that was my supra-pubic catheter was removed and I was feeling human again, I rechecked it. It was still there, and surprisingly felt a little bigger. So I thought to myself, "Self, you need to make an appointment with Doctor M to get this checked out."
After waiting a few weeks, I finally got off my lazy ass and made the appointment. And off I went to see my doctor. Again, I suffered a verbal tongue lashing because of my non-diligence in getting regular mammograms. I believe the words Whitney (the PA) used were, "You dingdong! You have a family history!" Well, yes. This is true. My mother had breast cancer twice and my grandmother had it once. You'd think I'd be a little more on top of these things, but NOOOooooo...!
Anyway, she did the exam and agreed that yes, indeed, I had a lump. She put in the referral as "urgent" because of my family history and it was scheduled for November 12th. Yipee. Boob squishage was in my immediate future.
The Aftermath!!
Ok, since months have passed since my first post I figure I'll need to have a catch-up post.
I had a radical hysterectomy (which I refer to as a "hystericalectomy") along with a salpingo oophorectomy. Which means that they yanked out my uterus, cervix, fallopian tubes and ovaries. This occured on September 29th... HAPPY FRIKKIN' BIRTHDAY TO ME, BABY!! The good news is that there was no lymph node involvment and I didn't need any further treatment.
I was in the hospital from that Tuesday until Saturday, and boy was I happy to get the hell out of there. Who the hell can sleep in a hospital?! People coming in and out, pokin' you with needles, tryin' to feed you, givin' you breathing treatments so you don't get pneumonia....
I had a stupid catheter in for 2 weeks. That is something I will never do again. Even if, for some reason, my bladder just falls right out of my body with a sickening, wet-sounding *thunk*, as GOD IS MY WITNESS...I will never have that supra-pubic catheter installed in me again! So medical science just better frikkin' come up with a better way.
I'm just sayin'....
I had a radical hysterectomy (which I refer to as a "hystericalectomy") along with a salpingo oophorectomy. Which means that they yanked out my uterus, cervix, fallopian tubes and ovaries. This occured on September 29th... HAPPY FRIKKIN' BIRTHDAY TO ME, BABY!! The good news is that there was no lymph node involvment and I didn't need any further treatment.
I was in the hospital from that Tuesday until Saturday, and boy was I happy to get the hell out of there. Who the hell can sleep in a hospital?! People coming in and out, pokin' you with needles, tryin' to feed you, givin' you breathing treatments so you don't get pneumonia....
I had a stupid catheter in for 2 weeks. That is something I will never do again. Even if, for some reason, my bladder just falls right out of my body with a sickening, wet-sounding *thunk*, as GOD IS MY WITNESS...I will never have that supra-pubic catheter installed in me again! So medical science just better frikkin' come up with a better way.
I'm just sayin'....
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